If you have serious issues with approaching women you don’t know, then a guide on how to break the ice with direct approaches may just be what you need…it’s very simple, instead of taking that long route with roundabouts and junctions, just take the straight direct path and you will get there faster!
The benefit of a direct approach
So what happens when you take a direct approach with a woman? If your aim is to impress her, then you most probably will, and especially with your stash of confidence. If your aim is to break the ice, then you may or may not succeed and what counts is how you set yourself apart from every other jerk out there.
A direct approach does not imply coming out arrogantly or forcibly, it does not necessitate any pressure on either of you. A direct approach is pretty much hitting the nail on the head…
Can women break the ice easily?
You’ll be so surprised at just how easy it is to break the ice with a woman and especially when using a direct approach–it’s like laying all your cards on the table and in turn “coercing” her to open up in the same way…in other words, when she opens up to you you have achieved to break the ice.
You meet a girl at a convention and the first thing you want to do is break the ice with her, get her talking…but your problem is that you don’t know how to make a girl feel comfortable. So what next? Do you start off the conversation with a smarty comment or act lost and ask her for directions?
To make a girl comfortable feel comfortable
It’s a very basic principle and it wouldn’t take much to see how good it works. What would make you feel comfortable if you were to fit into her shoes? Most guys agree that smiling works like magic. When a woman smiles at you so warmly, does it make you feel more uptight or give even more reason to further converse with her? It’s pretty obvious what the answer to that question is…
How can you tell that a girl is uncomfortable?
It makes sense to want to identify just what the signs of discomfort are…you may be thinking that she is on the same page as you are when in reality she would rather be at some other place and time and with some other guy.
If you realize that the girl seems fidgety or nervous as if she was anticipating some bad news, then she’s not comfortable around you and she just won’t be free talking or relating with you.
You would automatically become famous if you found the right answer to how to impress women, and not just famous among the women but among the guys as well. You’re probably wishing this is you and fortunately for you, you get to find out just what it takes to impress women regardless of where you meet.
Do you have that X-factor?
So which X-factor in a guy would a woman be really impressed with? That truly is a tough question because women come in different configurations and no two women are the same. However, there are certain X-factors that are an instant hit with any woman…
Rough and soft
Are you that guy who’s so manly, more like the ultimate alpha male, and at the same time that warm guy that makes her melt away with your touch, the way you talk to her, and the way you handle her? If this you, then you definitely will impress a whole number of women out there.
Use your self-assurance to impress women
There’s nothing like a confident guy who’s so confident it’s almost upsetting. One important aspect to believing in yourself is that it triggers that curiosity in the woman… “Why on earth is he so confident? I’ll have to dig deeper and find out!”
That right there is the start to impressing a woman. Just wear your confidence on your forehead, hold it high up, and you will never wonder how to impress a woman.